OKay so here goes. I've been talking to friends about relationships and stuff, and for the record boy am I glad I'm not in a relationship. All of them are going through some problems. ok I'm talking about BGRs here but will go on to friendships later. Anyways I've come to this conclusion a long time ago so here it is: It all boils down to timing! As in 2 people can be so right for each other but because of bad timing it does not work out. I know it sucks but its true. And another thing is that people when in a relatioinship for too long, they start like breaking up and getting back together like no body's business. Like seriously! Seriously! OKay I know I know. You are in love, but are you really? Like OKay you maylove the person but not in that way anymore. And the reason why you keep on getting back together is HABIT! Habit, that's it. Because you are so used to having each other around you cannot stand not having the other person around. However, this is NOT love. It's called routine, habit. So there! If that happens to you, no matter how painful it is maybe you should just end things once and for all. And once that happens you should NOT be friends for a while! Maybe in a couple months, but not immediately. OKay who am I, right? But its just my opinion.. so whatever. Take it into consideration or throw it down the drain. Its your life. Live it!
Okat next topic, friendship. The past like 4 months has been umm how should i put it, enlightening? And maybe not 4 months but like 1 & 1/2 years. I know when i took a year to fix what i messed up i sort of disappeared for a while, and i am sorry. No excuses. But it made me realise this all the girls continued to stand by me, even though i was not there. They never left and never stopped caring. And i love you guys so much for that. Seriously, we're like sisters i tell you! Shall i name you guys? OKay i shall haha.. The sweet loves are Sarah, Anisah, Raudha, Silvia and Daphne. I love them to bits i tell you. And Raudha i do love you. See i even gave you a special mention.. haha ya i know you're thinking wth right?
OKay.. another related topic is that people change, that's how we grow. We may change into a better person, we may regress in order to move forward. But that's life. People change... And yes, friendship, good friendship is hard to come by. And when it does we should cherish it. But sometimes it changes with time. We are so busy with our own life we forget about the past, our previous school, our previous "life". We grow apart and forget, we move on like nothing happened. But we should remember that friendship is hard to come by. Fight for the friendship if its worth fighting, if you care. And if you know you've given it your all and the person does not reciprocate then know when its time to leave it as it is and cherish what you had. Although you can never get that back. That's how the cookie crumbles.
Gosh, when i'm sick i start thinking ah... Although the brain does not work as well. hah awiat it doesn't work well sick or not. lol. But ya.. Heather was like OMG are you drunk!?!?! haha it was just the fever la! Okies love love! =)
